Readers' Comments
Ending Elder Abuse
I found this book to be an invaluable resource
for everyone who is, has been or will be faced with caring for a loved
one. And that's just about all of us. The authors take the helplessness
and fear out of a difficult, heartwrenching task and lead us through
it sanely and compassionately. I had no idea how huge was the problem
of "elder abuse". Not only was this book's information well
written but Bessie's story, which read like a novel, touched me deeply.
I could see the frustration, the scenes were alive and when she died,
I cried and cried. As one who has had a grandmother in such a home and
who is now taking care of my invalid husband in my home, I found the
part about caregivers particularly helpful. I applaud the authors and
suggest this book to everyone. In fact, it should be in every doctor's
office in the country. THANK YOU, THANK YOU FOR SUCH A WONDERFUL BOOK.
Barbara Johnson Witcher
Author of CREATE THE JOB YOU LOVE
And Make Plenty of Money
Having friends who struggle as members
of the sandwich generation, that large percentage of the American population
dealing with both adult children living at home and elderly parents,
I highly recommend this book. The story line tugs on the emotions; the
language is for the lay person; the suggestions and guidelines are for
anyone who finds themselves dealing with the elderly.
Particularly useful are the suggestions
on how to handle the frustrations. Just to know that,"Wow, I'm
not the only one that feels that way," gives hope and comfort in
an otherwise seemingly hopeless situation.
These authors, speaking from their combined voices of more than 30 years
of experience with their own elderly, sometimes helpless parents, bring
credibility and hope to the pages.
This is a must read for anyone whose
parent is losing his or her independence. Who to talk to? What to do?
Where to go for help? When to act? Why is this happening? How to deal
with the emotions? These and many more questions are answered and issues
addressed.
Pamela Caldwell
Senior Editor, Precious
Times Magazine